Sexual Vs Emotional Area

According to London Escorts of charlotte London escorts, It’s like saying the sexual area of his brain is Orpington and the emotional area of his brain is Watford, right? Like that’s how far apart they are. So I call this the law of Orpington, because when a man meets you, typically he’s in the sexual area of his brain, which is a good thing. It means he’s attracted to you. Men do not marry women they’re not attracted to sexually, right? So this is a good thing. You want him in Orpington, so to speak. And I call this Mr. Orpington. You know, he sees you and he’s like, “Oh my goodness. Look at her. Look at her hair, look at her eyes. She is gorgeous.” And let’s say this is a good guy, right?
We can feel this guy and we push him down, we say, “No.” And we come up, we try to meet you, we’re like, “Hey.” You know, “My name’s Mat. What’s your name? Oh, where are you from?” And he comes in and he says, “We do not care where she is from. We want her to know where we are from.” You know, this guy has like these dueling forces inside him. He has this big sex drive and then he also wants to be a good guy. So this brings me to the one word that allows a man to fall in love with you because oftentimes (and depending on the man and depending on his set of morals and whatnot), when he’s going out with you, there’s this sexual energy. He’s wondering if he’s going to get some action.
And that word that allows him to fall in love is “no.” The word is “no.” And the word “no” is you’re not going to sleep with him, you’re not going to give it up until he signs your contract. Now what is your contract? And I’m borrowing that phrase from Dr. Pat Allen who’s brilliant. The whole concept is genius. Your contract is what’s required to be with you before you will sleep with him, right? The status of the relationship, right? What do you need in this relationship mentally and emotionally before you will sleep with him. Do you want to be married before you will sleep with him? You get to decide. These are your morals, your values.
This is your contract. You get to decide. Do you want to be married? Do you want to be in a committed monogamous relationship? Or are you just out there to have fun, too? But you need to communicate that to him before you jump in bed. When do you communicate that? When you’re both vertical and clothed. You’ve got your clothes on. Talk about what’s required because it’s going to be critical. Because what happens is this: He takes you out, tries to hook up, you say no. Then he says, “Most girls say no one time.” So he takes you out again, tries to hook up, you say no. He says, “Most girls say no twice,” so he takes you out again. I don’t know how many times it takes, but eventually he’ll come to this conclusion. Every man does. If a woman doesn’t give it up, he’ll come to this conclusion and say, “You know what? If I hang out with her again, I’m not going to get any action. So the only reason I’m going to hang out with her is because I like her and I have an emotional connection with her and she’s a cool chick. She’s a cool woman.”

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